FEAR

 

FEAR

You are reading correctly – fear. It’s probably not the best topic for the first article, but it had to start with something. And this was honestly the first thing that occurred to me. I don’t know if this is due to the fact that I’m thinking about this one word a lot lately, or it was just a coincidence, but miraculously I am sitting at my laptop with MS Word opened up. So far I’m still fighting with my writing problem, so I hope that all of this is not gonna be such a disaster – but now to the topic.

We are all scared sometimes, whether we admit it or not. It doesn’t matter if we are acting like we are not feeling the fear – if it shows up it‘s usually not a good sign. It can be any kind of fear – but the worst fear is fear of something we actually can affect. Because fear forces us to consider some things too much, to overthink it.

The harsh reality is that fear affects 90% of our decision which mostly leads to a worse outcome – we succumb to fear. Sometimes it just takes to have a little faith in yourself, that we are good enough, that even if we fail it’s not gonna be a shame, it will be experience from which we can draw on. And as most of us know, a disgrace is not to fall, but remain lying down.

The fear is, of course, a part of each of us, and no one should be ashamed for it. Sadly, fear is a part of each decision in our personal life, career and education. If we let it control our life, in a few years we will find out that we are not happy with where we are – or even that we are not happy with yourself, and we don’t know how to get out of this.

Personally, I am not one of those people who take risks. I let my fears control me sometimes, but now I know, I can’t have fear forever – as well as bad luck, but that’s a topic for another time. 🙂

Whether you’re afraid of anything, remember that fear is a liar. Yes! Believe it or not. Fear is a lying b*tch. It may sound like a joke but think about it… How many times has fear influenced you negatively? Making difficult decisions is always annoying, but let fear affect them is not beneficial for you or for your future. Don’t worry. Life is too short to be scared. So remember – fear is a liar.

With love,

K.

PS: Sorry for mistakes, English is not my first language. 🙂

ED

EYE CONTACT

EYE CONTACT

 

Yes, today it will be a slightly different story. We can define Eye contact differently – even if it may not make sense? The idea is, that it could be classified into multiple categories. Such as the usual eye contact, that you keep with someone in normal conversation, but then there are people who just cannot talk to you and actually look at you – they talk to you, you discuss something and they are not able to look you in the eyes. Sincerely I‘m pretty irritated by that. I’m not saying that they must look into my eyes all the time, but I think that a little bit of eye contact is polite. It can prove that you are really listening. Eye contact is just human nature.

 

Then there’s such an unpleasant, that knows every girl/woman. It is the gaze of some guy, mostly weird one. You are sitting on the train, he sits opposite or through the lane and he is always staring at you. Honestly, in these moments I have the urge to run away. Sometimes the staring is too much, and you feel like a piece of meat. I don’t think I’m the only one who, in connection with this situation thought about a single word: pervert. Whether you are similar to this situation or not, it’s annoying.

 

Thank God, I’m getting to the good part. Eye contact may also be dangerous. Yes, I really mean it, and Yes, I think it’s the better part. I think every teenager and even a grown woman knows this. There is this nice boy/guy and you two are repeatedly looking at each other, it’s not scary, it’s the kind of stare that makes you blush – like you are searching for eyes of the other one. Have you ever done it? This may not be the intention to either one of you, it could happen by mistake, and the “spark” just appears. It happened to me a couple of times. My conclusion is simple. It’s chemistry, but a pleasant one and sometimes dangerous. Enjoy these dangerous stares, it feels nice! 🙂 Eye contact is a dangerous thing, but lovely… So lovely.

 

With love,

C.

 

PS: Sorry for mistakes, English is not my first language. 🙂

Oh, so lovely

HELLO!

HI!

Welcome! You’ve just won the lottery. Ok, I‘m kidding. I am a girl who loves writing and I got into trouble – I have lost my inspiration. That’s probably the reason why I am trying to start something like a blog. The biggest problem is my procrastination showing up or just my laziness, who knows?
I certainly don‘t, so I am on this page telling myself that this is finally it, that thing what is gonna make me do something – hoping for this to be true. 🙂
You won’t find anything usual here – at least it’s not the plan. This is me trying to be more productive, I am not planning to make it a fashion or beauty blog, I think there will be just everything. 🙂 It’s gonna be a place where I want to put my thoughts and perceptions, maybe a little motivation – because we all need it!

With love,

K.

HELLO